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Chicken the Did - 2018-11-18

Would a 'His Balls Are Huge' tag be in extremely bad taste?


casualcollapse - 2018-11-19

It is the most literal use


Chicken the Did - 2018-11-18

Would a 'His Balls Are Huge' tag be in extremely bad taste?


Anaxagoras - 2018-11-19

I have a gay friend who told me that partner abuse is a huge problem in the gay community. Partly it's because some of their roles encourage power imbalances (e.g. bears/pups, twinks, etc.), but mostly because it's difficult to get people to take the abuse seriously. "What's the problem? They're both guys, right? So the abusee should just fight back!" And I'll be honest: that was my gut reaction when seeing this video. But of course, it's a completely bullshit reaction; abuse is abuse, and it's 75% mental anyways.

I'm not sure where I was going with all that, other than I suddenly want to give my friend a call & see how he's doing. (He's currently in a long-term stable relationship with a very loving husband, but it's been awhile since we chatted.)


casualcollapse - 2018-11-19

This wrenches my heart :( -5 stars for making me cry


casualcollapse - 2018-11-19

https://noodlesandreceipts.tumblr.com/post/179247185939/my-final-r eport-on-the-death-of-jack-tank/amp?__twitter_impression=true


cognitivedissonance - 2018-11-19

I tangentially knew one of the earlier deaths in this circle. This particular scene attracts guys with body dysmorphia, and because that is a problem that generally affects women, and the men who have it tend to hide behind fetish subcultures, it is SUPER dark and it’s more common than has ever been explored. Fetish is, in my experience, a very middle class hobby. This means you get guys with money and above average intelligence who will go as far as they can to get their scene just right. That’s fine if it’s a furry buying increasingly expensive and anatomically correct fursuits, but then you get guys getting illegal surgeries, and that’s where you get danger.

I think in my own life and experiences, there’s a very real focus on mainstream gay culture being presentable and professional, and that means that we only ever see pictures of the successful marriages where both partners are of compatible ages and photogenic body types. It’s a frustratingly shallow culture, and as a dude who could double as Quasimodo in low lighting, I’ve never felt welcome. I could have either gone hard into fetish like these guys or just become the bitter, twisted Space Hulk that I am, incapable of love and not asking for any in return. I see a sudden shift in the guys who are not settled down by the time of their first wrinkle, and they frantically stumble through their options. It’s awful. Humans are evil.


You People Are Idiots - 2018-11-19

poor kid
fucken abusers are everywhere


You People Are Idiots - 2018-11-19

fuck wasnt meant as a reply
i feel ya about the scene gays tho
never been for me but i live in podunk nowhere
and its tough enough even being open about it here


cognitivedissonance - 2018-11-19

There's also a huge motivation among Millenials to "be who you want to be" at all costs. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. But maybe who you want to be is also somebody with common sense.


spikestoyiu - 2018-11-19

Yeah but would a 'His Balls Are Huge' tag be in extremely bad taste?


cognitivedissonance - 2018-11-19

He knew the rules of the game when he asked to play...


Maggot Brain - 2018-11-19

Motion to have a "when fetishes go too far week"


Accidie - 2018-11-19

isn't that every week on here?


casualcollapse - 2018-11-20

Pretty much..


exy - 2018-11-20

damn, this is sad


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