there's this guy who acts exactly like this Redneck, who lives about an hour from me, whom I've once attended his "social gathering;" only instead of the confederate flag, he's got a GIANT swastika painted on his barn.

I personally don't mind a little anti-semitism, even when it's directed at me. It can be endearing as long as you are paying me with free beer and food. That's how jewy I am.

yeah, exactly. I don't mind a bit of intolerance, so long as it's kept within boundaries - in the Nazi Barn guys case, he utterly lacks charisma and reason. Therefore, the majority of town looks down on him, and his only followers are just as inept.
For myself, however, I had never been to a pro-"nazi" party before, so it was a really unique experience being embraced as "pure white" (despite having a Jewish background, myself).