Yeah, I used to be in a gaming group awhile back and these people suck every ounce of joy or fun out of what is literally an activity based around having fun.
I just discovered Tabletop Simulator. I bought it a year ago but it was total crap, but it has really improved. It allows me to play all my favorite boardgames with my far flung friends, and it's amazing. You should check it out!
We're playing some Pathfinder card game tonight, did Mage Knight the other night, might try out Descent 2nd ed. soon. I have a bunch of avalon hill games and stuff of that nature as well. Twilight Imperium, etc.